So. Today I was supposed to commute back to Spokane to work at the main clinic. That's my normal Tuesday schedule. On my way there, however, my boss called to ask if I'd go back to Cheney and work becuase the gal who ususally is here Tuesday needed to stay home with her sick kid. I was all for it. Cheney is a longer shift which is more money, and it's quieter and I don't have to drive so far.
The day went pretty normal, maybe a little busier than I'm used to, but I like it that way. I sit down for lunch, (they brought us southern bbq today) and within a minute a nurse comes to say I have an x-ray, but that it's not urgent and I can finish eating. Fine by me. Not 2 minutes pass and a receptionist comes back to the lunchroom wondering what to do because there's a couple checking in who don't speak English and their interpreter hasn't shown up. (We're supposed to schedule and provide interpreters whenever needed prior to appointments, so the interpreting office dropped the ball there) The receptionist was so frazzled, so on a whim I said "what do they speak?" She looked at me and in a huge sigh said "CHINESE!!" So I said...."I can speak Chinese." She looked at me like I was crazy and said "Don't bull-s*** me" HAHA.. So I said I was serious and she hauled me back to the front.
Longest walk of my life. My Chinese is terrible, where would I even begin? It was an older couple with their 20 something son. None of them spoke English, and actually the older mother was the one who understood me best! She thought I was the coolest thing since sliced bread and kept saying how good my Chinese was. Yeah right. The receptionists and nurses all just stared at me as I spoke to them an explained to them that an interpreter (with better Chinese than me) was on his way in just a few minutes. They were so grateful and happy. Everyone else was in shock.
To avoid all the questions I didn't go back to the lunchroom and did that first x-ray that had been waiting. Through the halls people kept congratulating me and telling everyone else what I did, I seriously felt like a celebrity. I sat back down in the lunchroom when I was done and took a bite of my sandwich and a Dr. came back and said she was sorry but she had an urgent x-ray. Went and did it, sat back down, another Dr. comes back with another x-ray... I'm never gonna get to eat at this point. Oh well. I go look at the name on the order and it's my Chinese friend!! Woot Woot!! The interpreter had shown up by this point obviously, but I didn't need him. Me and the patient went back and spoke Chinese through the halls and through the x-ray and when I dropped her back off in the room she said thanks so much and my Chinese really was good. (It really wasn't) Whatever, she had to teach me how to say hold your breath cuz I didn't know how to! HAHA . It felt so great though, and gave me an opportunity to tell people about my mission because everyone had to know how in the world I spoke such a weird language. Funny enough, this is actually the third time since I've been working in Cheney that I've gotten to use my Chinese! There's more of them around, I wonder if they have a club or parties I can go to.....and practice my Zhongwen!! Oh what a great day. So glad that my co-worker's kid wasn't feeling good today! Hope she gets better by tomorrow though :)
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Shredded
I'm not sure we can afford a gym membership, or weightwatchers like I thought I would since the cost of living is so high in Cheney (really?!?!?! ) But that's no excuse for not losing this marraige weight, I promised myself I would and I'm gonna.....So. Day three of Jillian Michaels dvds and I'm about to kill her. But I'm gonna keep it up if it's the last thing I do dangit!!!
Saturday, September 1, 2012
Native Cheneyans
It's official! We are all moved to Cheney. The move went really smoothly thanks to a load of help from friends and family, and even the cleaning of the apartment went quickly with Shaush and the kids helping. Ella kept saying over and over, "Bacon look how clean it is! It's so beautiful!" Thanks everyone for the help!
The new digs are better than I was expecting. Everything fits very easily and feels like home already. The only real downside is the small kitchen and lack of a dishwasher. Jamaal compains everyday about doing the dishes, but our apartment sure stays clean! But other than that I like the layout and the storage. The morning after the move however, we went to use the bathroom for the first time. I couldn't really inspect it during the walk through because the electricity hadn't come on yet (They said it would be on sometime between 7:30 and 3.......duh) and so I didn't know till the next morning when Jamaal stepped on a piece of glass in the shower and cut his foot. Who wouldn't want to wake up that way? Once he figured out that the water faucet had hot and cold backwards (this was after trying to turn up the heat on the water heater which was impossible to get to) he also noticed that only about 1/2 of the water actually comes out the shower head, the rest kept drizzling out of the bathtub faucet. The toilet runs after you flush it unless you jerk it up really hard, and the stopper to the sink was broken so we had to take it out altogether to let water drain out.....besides that the shower doesn't drain very fast and is moldy.....But whatevs. They'll fix it eventually. I've only called three times so far.
But really I like it....my favorite part? I ride my bike to work everyday now! 6 minutes! I love it! Of course it might take longer once school starts beacuse the traffic will pick up. Today on my way in I only saw one other soul on the street, a janitor walking down the sidewalk of the school. Cheney is like a ghost town between semesters. So is the clinic. But I don't care. It's nice having all the streets and stores to myself once in a while.
The only other problem is our internet. Comcast doesn't service our unit. And the only other 2 servicers are at least 50 bucks a month for their slowest speeds....which is like turtle slow. I can't believe how hard it is to not have internet at home. I had to bring checks to work with me to deposit them through the EWU wi-fi. And who knows if any of our bills will ever get paid on time. Expect me to only respond to internet things at work I guess. It has been kind of nice though. It's given us time to get settled in, just need to unpack the pictures and decorations now. And last night we even had time to go to the Cheney city pool, which was oh so reminicent of the Prineville pool. About the same size, same number of lifeguards, same dilapidated interior and showers. It was nice I felt like a kid again. Good thing we made it too. It was the last day of the season and family night price is only $3 per family.....luckily we didn't even have to break the bank because the lifeguards just used a leftover season pass punchcard someone left and let us in for free :) Made it all worth it.
Also, if we spread our tv antennas out all the way we can pretty much hear and see most of FOX and NBC on our TV. It only cuts in and out every few minutes. Woot!
So anyone wanting to come visit the Calkins recidence is now open! We have and extra bedroom, a super big living room, and 2 airmattresses!! As long as you don't mind wearing flip flops to protect against the broken shower glass...... :) We would really love visitors!
The new digs are better than I was expecting. Everything fits very easily and feels like home already. The only real downside is the small kitchen and lack of a dishwasher. Jamaal compains everyday about doing the dishes, but our apartment sure stays clean! But other than that I like the layout and the storage. The morning after the move however, we went to use the bathroom for the first time. I couldn't really inspect it during the walk through because the electricity hadn't come on yet (They said it would be on sometime between 7:30 and 3.......duh) and so I didn't know till the next morning when Jamaal stepped on a piece of glass in the shower and cut his foot. Who wouldn't want to wake up that way? Once he figured out that the water faucet had hot and cold backwards (this was after trying to turn up the heat on the water heater which was impossible to get to) he also noticed that only about 1/2 of the water actually comes out the shower head, the rest kept drizzling out of the bathtub faucet. The toilet runs after you flush it unless you jerk it up really hard, and the stopper to the sink was broken so we had to take it out altogether to let water drain out.....besides that the shower doesn't drain very fast and is moldy.....But whatevs. They'll fix it eventually. I've only called three times so far.
But really I like it....my favorite part? I ride my bike to work everyday now! 6 minutes! I love it! Of course it might take longer once school starts beacuse the traffic will pick up. Today on my way in I only saw one other soul on the street, a janitor walking down the sidewalk of the school. Cheney is like a ghost town between semesters. So is the clinic. But I don't care. It's nice having all the streets and stores to myself once in a while.
The only other problem is our internet. Comcast doesn't service our unit. And the only other 2 servicers are at least 50 bucks a month for their slowest speeds....which is like turtle slow. I can't believe how hard it is to not have internet at home. I had to bring checks to work with me to deposit them through the EWU wi-fi. And who knows if any of our bills will ever get paid on time. Expect me to only respond to internet things at work I guess. It has been kind of nice though. It's given us time to get settled in, just need to unpack the pictures and decorations now. And last night we even had time to go to the Cheney city pool, which was oh so reminicent of the Prineville pool. About the same size, same number of lifeguards, same dilapidated interior and showers. It was nice I felt like a kid again. Good thing we made it too. It was the last day of the season and family night price is only $3 per family.....luckily we didn't even have to break the bank because the lifeguards just used a leftover season pass punchcard someone left and let us in for free :) Made it all worth it.
Also, if we spread our tv antennas out all the way we can pretty much hear and see most of FOX and NBC on our TV. It only cuts in and out every few minutes. Woot!
So anyone wanting to come visit the Calkins recidence is now open! We have and extra bedroom, a super big living room, and 2 airmattresses!! As long as you don't mind wearing flip flops to protect against the broken shower glass...... :) We would really love visitors!
Friday, August 17, 2012
What the Heck!?!?!?
I have to give a talk a week from Sunday.
I'm not surprised, we gave talks the week we moved in, might as well speak the week we move out.
Except this time it's just me.....further, they didn't call me to ask me to speak, they called Jamaal, and he said that I would. His reasoning being that I wouldn't have said no, which is true, it still doesn't give him permission to volunteer me.
What adds fuel to this fire?
Let me share part of my journal entry from last week:
"Me and Adam had a good discussion s couple nights ago......
As we talked, I realized I have the same problem. I hold a lot of hatred and grudge towards some people........
So me and Adam made a goal to pray everyday for charity.......... This is going to be a hard goal to do. "
So what's my topic?
You guessed it.
"LOVE THY NEIGHBOOR"
Jamaal just laughed and laughed......
I'm not surprised, we gave talks the week we moved in, might as well speak the week we move out.
Except this time it's just me.....further, they didn't call me to ask me to speak, they called Jamaal, and he said that I would. His reasoning being that I wouldn't have said no, which is true, it still doesn't give him permission to volunteer me.
What adds fuel to this fire?
Let me share part of my journal entry from last week:
"Me and Adam had a good discussion s couple nights ago......
As we talked, I realized I have the same problem. I hold a lot of hatred and grudge towards some people........
So me and Adam made a goal to pray everyday for charity.......... This is going to be a hard goal to do. "
So what's my topic?
You guessed it.
"LOVE THY NEIGHBOOR"
Jamaal just laughed and laughed......
Thursday, August 16, 2012
Pac-Rat
I have a love-hate relationship with life right now. I love change and that it brings new exciting dimensions and adventures, but I hate not having schedules and time to do everything and always feeling like I'm not doing what I should.
Here's what is going on lately as far as change is concerned:
1. Little Beebit left for his mission yesterday. He's going to Portland....Oregon, where he grew up. Just like Jamaal did in Tennessee. So funny. It'll be a hard road for him, but I'm excited for his adventures. I may or may have not cried after hanging up on the phone with him before he left. That may or may have not been the second time I cried that morning. Don't worry, I'm changing my BC prescription in 2 weeks.....
2. I recieved an un-requested sporadic 4-day weekend starting the day Jamaal came home from scout camp. He'll probably resent me forever for it, but I had to get outa here!! So I tried to plan a camping trip to Glacier since neither of us had been there, but he was tired, and Dee-dee decided to bring her family and the new baby to my parents house....so I couldn't really pass up that opportunity. We still went camping one night in the Bitteroots which was nice, not Glacier, but it'll do for now, we'll have other chances to go there. Also, I love spending time with my family, and that last chance to see Beebit pre-mission. Plus Jamaal caught up on some sleep. We also cooked a pizza over our campfire that night in the woods.....which was aweomse. I'll post pictures when I get home tonight.
3. I'm was finally starting to get in the groove at work, and then my machine broke down for a week. I was shipped out to other sites during that time, and ended up getting over-time during the whole ordeal while they fixed it...and it's still not fixed. So our higher-ups are trying to pull some strings to get us new equipment, but for now I just have to make do.....which means feeling embarrased every day when I have to shut down the machine in the middle of an exam where my patient is already in a lot of pain and not pleased with me. Or having this horrible timer beeper go off when it shouldn't and then not shut off....that one's my favorite. Or hoping evertime a Dr. orders and x-ray that this time will not be the time I will have to go tell that Dr. the machine is down and No pictures for you today! Sorry!! Uggghhh Hopefully this all gets sorted out before the semester starts at the college and we get super busy.
4. Ummm...we're moving in like a week. This is the real love-hate stuff. I love moving into a new place, I love getting rid of stuff we don't need, I love getting new stuff we realize we always needed, I love having more space and extra rooms.....I hate packing, I hate lifting heavy stuff, I hate spending money, I hate moving into a smaller kitchen. I hate changing my address with every organization on the face of the Earth. I hate feeling like I don't belong in our current ward anymore and realizing I won't know anyone in the new ward or town.....but I love that too, new friends are great.
The other thing that is sucky is we finally met with the missionaries of our current ward last night, and I really liked them. One is just a greenie!! It reminded me of all the work I need to be doing, and although we accepted their invitations, it seemed kinda hollow knowing we wouldn't even be working with them in a week...., but it gave me the motivation to do something about it and start working with the misionaries as soon as we move. Maybe I'll get called to be a ward missionary. :) Yay.
Also I'm exited to settle down because I know it'll force me to stop making excuses to work out and eat healthy. I'm really ready to be healthy and fit in my clothes again. for real.
5. I'm cutting my hair. There is only a love-love relationship here. I can't wait any longer!!
Here's a link to my favoritest video about Cheney, the town we're moving too. You will enjoy it. Believe me.
Here's what is going on lately as far as change is concerned:
1. Little Beebit left for his mission yesterday. He's going to Portland....Oregon, where he grew up. Just like Jamaal did in Tennessee. So funny. It'll be a hard road for him, but I'm excited for his adventures. I may or may have not cried after hanging up on the phone with him before he left. That may or may have not been the second time I cried that morning. Don't worry, I'm changing my BC prescription in 2 weeks.....
2. I recieved an un-requested sporadic 4-day weekend starting the day Jamaal came home from scout camp. He'll probably resent me forever for it, but I had to get outa here!! So I tried to plan a camping trip to Glacier since neither of us had been there, but he was tired, and Dee-dee decided to bring her family and the new baby to my parents house....so I couldn't really pass up that opportunity. We still went camping one night in the Bitteroots which was nice, not Glacier, but it'll do for now, we'll have other chances to go there. Also, I love spending time with my family, and that last chance to see Beebit pre-mission. Plus Jamaal caught up on some sleep. We also cooked a pizza over our campfire that night in the woods.....which was aweomse. I'll post pictures when I get home tonight.
3. I'm was finally starting to get in the groove at work, and then my machine broke down for a week. I was shipped out to other sites during that time, and ended up getting over-time during the whole ordeal while they fixed it...and it's still not fixed. So our higher-ups are trying to pull some strings to get us new equipment, but for now I just have to make do.....which means feeling embarrased every day when I have to shut down the machine in the middle of an exam where my patient is already in a lot of pain and not pleased with me. Or having this horrible timer beeper go off when it shouldn't and then not shut off....that one's my favorite. Or hoping evertime a Dr. orders and x-ray that this time will not be the time I will have to go tell that Dr. the machine is down and No pictures for you today! Sorry!! Uggghhh Hopefully this all gets sorted out before the semester starts at the college and we get super busy.
4. Ummm...we're moving in like a week. This is the real love-hate stuff. I love moving into a new place, I love getting rid of stuff we don't need, I love getting new stuff we realize we always needed, I love having more space and extra rooms.....I hate packing, I hate lifting heavy stuff, I hate spending money, I hate moving into a smaller kitchen. I hate changing my address with every organization on the face of the Earth. I hate feeling like I don't belong in our current ward anymore and realizing I won't know anyone in the new ward or town.....but I love that too, new friends are great.
The other thing that is sucky is we finally met with the missionaries of our current ward last night, and I really liked them. One is just a greenie!! It reminded me of all the work I need to be doing, and although we accepted their invitations, it seemed kinda hollow knowing we wouldn't even be working with them in a week...., but it gave me the motivation to do something about it and start working with the misionaries as soon as we move. Maybe I'll get called to be a ward missionary. :) Yay.
Also I'm exited to settle down because I know it'll force me to stop making excuses to work out and eat healthy. I'm really ready to be healthy and fit in my clothes again. for real.
5. I'm cutting my hair. There is only a love-love relationship here. I can't wait any longer!!
Here's a link to my favoritest video about Cheney, the town we're moving too. You will enjoy it. Believe me.
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Singleness
I promise I have been writing in my journal. It's hard because I do it at work and I'm afraid "big brother" is peaking onto my work computer and reading my innermost thoughts and personal feelings, but at least I am doing it, and being somewhat regular about it. But I have neglected you little bloggy.
Tonight I am blogging late though because I am lonely and sad and probably a littlePMS-y, whiny. Jamaal is gone for the whole week at Boy Scout camp. he is the scout master for our ward and for the Friendship Park Branch, which is a Marshaleese branch that shares half of its meetings with ours. So he has about 90% of his scout troop made up of young men who don't even know what scouts are, and a couple of white kids who mostly don't care much. However, ever since he's gotten the calling, things have changed. The boys love him and they work so hard to do their merit badges and things. They had a good turnout for the huge encampment that includes 15 stakes this week. Even my dad is there from Missoula it's so big. Anyways. When Jamaal received the calling there wasn't even a registered scout troop for the boys, and he's worked his butt off to get them this far, so it's a big deal. I'm so glad he got to go and wear his cool hat........
He loves that hat....
So what all this means for me.....I'm alone. It's all about me huh? Granted we have spent many nights away from each other, I used to work graveyards for goodness sakes, but all that time we were never far away, and both had our phones attached to our fingers constantly texting all the time. This time though, we're separated for reals. He isn't even sure he can find a place to charge his phone so he is turning it off all day and just checking it at night and in the morning to make sure I'm not in the hospital or something. whew.
I told mom-in-law today that it isn't really fair that we've been thrust into this so soon as newlyweds. I mean one or two nights i could handle....but a whole week?!?! Come on!! I thought this wouldn't be so hard. But it is. It sucks. That's all there is to it. I have spent the past couple evenings with Tacoma. She's a life-saver. And Luckily someone asked me to work for them on tomorrow, so there's one more day I'm not sitting at home staring at the walls or looking through pictures of my love and crying......not that I do that. But it is so weird that I feel so different without him here. I don't think it's that I'm dependent on him, it's more like I don't feel right with him so far away. I can't tell him about all the nuances that happened to me today, and it's just sad.
I missed a call from him tonight. It broke my heart.
When I got home I went to the bathroom and I had a moment of happiness and closeness to my husband. At our wedding some turkeys vandalized our car, and then left the supplies in our apartment......to remember them by.
They left some window markers which Jamaal has often put to good use. It started with a love note on our bathroom mirror one morning, a simple "I love you". To which I responded with an "I love you more", and then an "I love you most" and the fight has never stopped. One day I tried to be clever and left this one.
It's a love graph showing that I obviously love Jamaal more over time, but he quickly proved me wrong, it was embarrassing. Sometime after that this was on the mirror when I came home.
he'd better come home soon. :)
Tonight I am blogging late though because I am lonely and sad and probably a little
So what all this means for me.....I'm alone. It's all about me huh? Granted we have spent many nights away from each other, I used to work graveyards for goodness sakes, but all that time we were never far away, and both had our phones attached to our fingers constantly texting all the time. This time though, we're separated for reals. He isn't even sure he can find a place to charge his phone so he is turning it off all day and just checking it at night and in the morning to make sure I'm not in the hospital or something. whew.
I told mom-in-law today that it isn't really fair that we've been thrust into this so soon as newlyweds. I mean one or two nights i could handle....but a whole week?!?! Come on!! I thought this wouldn't be so hard. But it is. It sucks. That's all there is to it. I have spent the past couple evenings with Tacoma. She's a life-saver. And Luckily someone asked me to work for them on tomorrow, so there's one more day I'm not sitting at home staring at the walls or looking through pictures of my love and crying......not that I do that. But it is so weird that I feel so different without him here. I don't think it's that I'm dependent on him, it's more like I don't feel right with him so far away. I can't tell him about all the nuances that happened to me today, and it's just sad.
I missed a call from him tonight. It broke my heart.
When I got home I went to the bathroom and I had a moment of happiness and closeness to my husband. At our wedding some turkeys vandalized our car, and then left the supplies in our apartment......to remember them by.
They left some window markers which Jamaal has often put to good use. It started with a love note on our bathroom mirror one morning, a simple "I love you". To which I responded with an "I love you more", and then an "I love you most" and the fight has never stopped. One day I tried to be clever and left this one.
It says
" I love you more today than yesterday
And I will love you more tomorrow than today,
And everyday I live I will only love you more"
It's been up and hasn't faded or gotten smeared by moisture for months. I love it. Love it so much. Our sealer said that we should say that to each other every day of our marriage, and I look at it multiple times a day. I love it. No matter what happens that day between us, I always know this is true. And i truly love him more everyday, no matter how far he is. If anything, this distance and week of time away from each other has made my heart grow closer to him more than ever. I never realized how much he meant to me and how much I depend on him. What a lucky girl I am!he'd better come home soon. :)
Monday, June 18, 2012
Announcements!
3 Announcements today!
1. We had our 6 month anniversary this last Saturday. To celebrate I stayed up all night and all day and went to watch Jamaal run in the Dirty Dash.
2. I graduate this Thursday!! With Honors!! It will look something like this. Except with cords and stuff.
3. I started a full time job today!! I accepted an offer with Rockwood clinic for a full time job in Cheney, WA, which is the same town as Eastern Washington University where Jamaal has been commuting for school. So. no more commuting! We're moving to Cheney at the end of the summer! And it's full time and benefited and everything nice! You know what's the best part of it though? NO MORE GRAVEYARD SHIFTS!!!! WOOT WOOT!!
Last but not least, and not an announcement....I found Jamaal's senior pictures and had to post one....or two. He's just so stinkin cute!
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